[Dialogue] Broken hearts, but not losing heart

[Ann Shafer]

Beautiful. I am sending it to Bob Stewart for his morning prayers. And I
will share it with our pastor at St. Barnabas Episcopal Church here in
Fredericksburg. Thank you! Ann Shafer
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> After reading this, and reflecting on the "Prayers of the People" in our
liturgy, I wonder why we do not specifically pray for and acknowledge the
innocent suffering paid for by our income taxes and the blood of our
children soldiers.
>
> "We pray for those who suffer at the hands of our government and of
governments everywhere.  Help us to gather the strength to repudiate this
sanctioned suffering, and to direct our leaders out of the heart of darkness
and into your peaceful light".
>
> What do you think?
>
> -- 
> Dick Kroeger
>
> Published on Monday, December 27, 2004 by CommonDreams.org
> Heart Problem
>
> by David Potorti
>
> America has a heart problem. You know it's true when the president has to
acknowledge that Donald Rumsfeld has a heart - not that it's two sizes too
small, like the Grinch's, but that it actually exists at all.
>
> "Beneath that rough and gruff, no-nonsense demeanor is a good human
being," the president remarked, after it was revealed that the Secretary of
Defense had a machine signing his name on death notices to families of
service people killed in Iraq, "who cares deeply about the military, and
deeply about the grief that war causes."
>
> In using the passive voice to describe something as violent as the
pre-emptive war he authored, the president's distancing language was just as
cold as Rumsfeld's machine-written condolences-- almost heartless.
>
> When we launched September 11th Families for Peaceful Tomorrows in
February 2002, we held up an oversized Hallmark heart with a letter to
George W. Bush attached. "Have a heart, President Bush," we asked, inviting
him to create an Afghan victims' fund that would acknowledge not only the
civilian victims of 9/11 but also the estimated 4,000 Afghan civilians lost
to our bombing campaign. We recognized, even then, that our losses on 9/11
were just the first of a series of losses to come - a loss of our
perspective, a loss of our humanity, a loss of our unity with each other and
with the rest of the world.
>
> The President never took us up on our invitation, and since that day the
rising body count of Americans, Afghans and Iraqis has been accompanied by a
marked absence of heart in our national character. You see it in our
perpetual denial of reality--not just political reality, or fiscal reality,
but human reality: a stubborn resistance to acknowledging the human
suffering resulting from our choices since 9/11. Military coffins hidden
from view of cameras. Suffering children unacknowledged from Kabul to Kansas
City to Baghdad. Alleged enemy combatants "disappeared" without due process.
Torture denied. Families destroyed. Everywhere, hearts broken. And always,
we try to deny the pain.
>
> Americans using Vioxx, Celebrex and Aleve recently learned that these
drugs taken to avoid pain may actually increase their risk of heart attack.
It's an interesting notion: in seeking to avoid pain, we damage our hearts.
In denying pain, we turn off a piece of our humanity.
>
> As we approach the new year, could it be time to feel the pain? I know a
9/11 father who likens his continuing grief over the death of his son at the
World Trade Center to trying to outrun a tidal wave. Sometimes, he says, you
have to stop running and let the water crash over you. Sometimes you have to
be immersed in your grief, drenched in your pain. It's the only way to carry
on. It's the only way to remain human.
>
> Between Christmas and New Year's, parents of 9/11 victims and service
people killed in Iraq will join a Global Exchange delegation to Jordan,
bringing $600,000 in humanitarian supplies for refugees from the U.S. attack
on Falluja. Our choice to take military action killed 71 U.S. service people
and an estimated 2,000 Iraqis, creating thousands of refugees, most of them
children. In acknowledging all of those killed, in helping the living, and
in creating a climate of understanding that can lead to peace-- these
grieving parents hope to recover what was lost with the deaths of their
children: Their humanity. Their connectedness. Their hearts.
>
> What Jonathan Schell wrote in the New Yorker in 1969 about the massacre at
My Lai could just as well have been written about 9/11, about the wars in
Afghanistan and Iraq, about Abu Ghraib, about Falluja:
>
>
> "If we turn away and let the rationalizations crowd into our minds to
protect us, we are degraded. We want to go on with our daily lives, and we
may wonder, why should my life be interrupted by this? Why should I take on
this suffering on behalf of these victims? However much we may resist it,
the choice has been made for us, irrevocably. Whether we manage to bear the
grief or whether we freeze, the massacre enters into us and becomes a part
of us. The massacre calls for self-examination and for action, but if we
deny the call and try to go on as before, as though nothing had happened,
our knowledge, which can never leave us once we have acquired it, will bring
about an unnoticed but crucial alteration in us, numbing our most precious
faculties and withering our souls. For if we learn to accept this, there is
nothing we will not accept."
> For some of us most closely affected by loss on, and as a result of,
September 11th, we have learned to accept our broken hearts. But we will not
accept losing them.
>
> David Potorti is the co-director of September 11th Families for Peaceful
Tomorows www.peacefultomorrows.org
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