[Dialogue] Fwd: Action Alert: The Only Winning Way to Fight the Ban on Gay Marriage
Karl Hess
khess at apk.net
Mon Jun 5 21:32:57 EDT 2006
I wonder whether the NSP has ever acknowledged
that we have the Mass Supreme court to thank for
Bush being in the white house now.
Ted Strickland (now the Dem candidate for
Governor in OH) was in congress on 1992 and tried
to dissuade the Clinton administration from
pushing the ban on assault weapons. He thinks
much of our political loss since then was
stimulated by that action, which we 'won'. He
doesn't live among and talk to liberals all the
time so he has a perspective that most of us
don't.
This kind of fight could keep the far right in
power for long into the future. Are you sure
that is what you want?
There might be a difference between the real world and what we would like.
Karl
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>ACTION ALERT: The Only WINNING Way to Fight the Ban on Gay Marriage
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>The Religious Right's campaign against
>homosexuals is entering new terrain now that
>President Bush has endorsed the constitutional
>amendment banning gay marriages that will be
>debated this week in Congress.
>
>We need to step up as an alternative voice.
>
>Below, Rabbi Lerner suggests one strategy for
>doing so. However, if you disagree with the
>analysis and strategy he suggests, find another
>strategy and implement it. What is important is
>that you SPEAK UP in the next week in the public
>sphere. Write a letter to your local media, and
>also to your Senators and Congressional
>leaders. Let them know that you are an activist
>in the Network of Spiritual Progressives, and
>that Spiritual Progressives oppose any attempts
>to stigmatize homosexuals or to deny them rights
>that are given to heterosexuals. And then, if
>you do agree with Rabbi Lerner's analysis,
>incorporate that into your letter (you are
>welcome to use the entire piece below or any
>part of it and send it as part of your letter,
>or send it as a statement by Rabbi Michael
>Lerner with which you happen to agree, or
>rewrite it in your own language. Just do
>something immediate and strong to let the world
>know that you do not accept any attacks on gays
>and lesbians.
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>There may be enough sane voices in the Congress
>to prevent the Constitutional Amendment approach
>(not necessarily because of support for gay
>rights but because of fear of using the
>constitutional amendment approach to achieve any
>end). But the assault on gays and lesbians has
>proved too valuable a tool, for reasons
>explained below, for the Right to abandon it. So
>the ideas presented below will be relevant for
>many years to come regardless of the outcome of
>the immediate struggle being fought this week.
>We intend to discuss this in more detail in a
>future communication (please read the September
>issue of TIKKUN magazine in which we will
>present this and alternative perspectives.
>
>Here is Rabbi Lerner's statement (which you may
>also ask local media to print as an op-ed--they
>can contact him directly at
>rabbilerner at tikkun.org or by calling 510 528
>6250 of they wish to interview him on this
>topic, though we'd prefer if you asked them to
>also interview YOU on this topic).
>
>The Only Winning Way to Fight the Ban on Gay Marriage
> by Rabbi Michael Lerner
>
> Now that President Bush has endorsed a
>constitutional amendment banning gay marriages,
>those who hope to stop it need to understand why
>their strategies have been so unpersuasive in
>the past.
>
> Gay and lesbian groups have tried to use the
>language of “equal rights” as their launching
>pad for mass support, posing themselves as a
>victim of discrimination akin to that suffered
>by African Americans. But while many Americans
>stand with them in relationship to issues of
>non-discrimination in hiring or equal rights to
>visit their partners in hospitals or inherit
>their partner’s property, they draw the line at
>marriage.
>
> The opposition to gay marriage comes from
>two different kinds of concerns, each of which
>can be effectively fought if the supporters of
>gay marriage stop placing all their eggs in the
>equal rights basket and instead seek to
>understand what might be reasonable in the
>position of those who oppose gay marriage, and
>how to respond to those reasonable concerns.
>There are two such concerns. The first is that
>there is a huge crisis in family life today, and
>the Right has been able to convince people that
>the crisis is in part generated by homosexuals.
>A movement to defend gay rights must address
>that family crisis.
>
>That’s why the Network of Spiritual
>Progressives, which recently held a national
>gathering and teach-in=to Congress in D.C. in
>May to reconstitute a religious left made the
>first plank of its eight part Spiritual Covenant
>with America a commitment to build a world based
>on love and caring—to counter the ethos of
>materialism and selfishness that are rooted in
>the world of work and in the me-firstism and
>“looking out for number one” that have
>increasingly become the yardstick of “common
>sense” in advanced capitalist societies.
>All day long people work in corporations that
>teach them that their own worth is dependent on
>their ability to contribute to “the bottom line”
>of maximizing money and power. People quickly
>learn that their own ability to succeed requires
>learning how to see other people through a
>utilitarian or instrumental frame: “how can
>these others be of use to me in showing the
>people who have power over my employment that I
>am going to be useful to them in terms of
>contributing to their bottom line?” People who
>spend all day long learning how to use others to
>maximize their own advantage bring home with
>them a consciousness that tells them that
>“everyone is just out for themselves” and that
>it is self-destructive and irrational not to be
>a maximizer of self-interest.
>
>It is this way of seeing each other that
>undermines loving families. Increasingly people
>make commitments to each other within this kind
>of utilitarian framework: “I’m with you as long
>as I think that you are able to satisfy MY NEEDS
>better than anyone else who is likely to want to
>be my partner or spouse.” Instead of seeing the
>other as an embodiment of the sacred who
>deserves to be loved and cherished, the legacy
>of the old bottom line of the marketplace is to
>teach us to think in terms of how others will
>satisfy our own needs, and to discard them if we
>can ever find someone who wills satisfy yet more
>of our needs.
>
>No wonder, then, that so many people feel
>insecure in their families. And the homophobic
>sections of the Right have then used that
>insecurity to blame the problem on homosexuals.
>Yet there is nary a family that has ever broken
>up because there were homosexuals in the
>neighborhood.
>
>Those of us who oppose the consttutioanl
>amendment banning gay marriage would be far more
>effective if we were to become the progressive
>pro-families movement that sought to advance a
>“New Bottom Line”: corporations, legislation,
>government practices, social institutions should
>be judged efficient, rational and productive not
>only to the extent that they maximize money and
>power, but also to the extent that they
>contribute to our capacities to be loving and
>caring, kind and generous, ethically and
>ecologically sensitive, and capable of
>responding to others as embodiments of the
>sacred and repond to the universe with awe and
>wonder.
>Spiritual progressives could show that this New
>Bottom Line, when applied to our econmic and
>social institutions, could actually make a
>difference to families, while no families at
>risk of break up will be helped by a
>constitutional amendment banning gay marriage.
>
>The second objection to gay marriage comes from
>those who point to marriage as a holy sacrament
>whose dimensions have for most of human history
>been set by religious communities. They are
>correct, and for that very reason marriage ought
>to be taken out of the state entirely and
>replaced with civil unions with agreements like
>other contracts enforced by the state. Let all
>marriages be conducted in the private realm with
>no legal sanction by the state, and then those
>religious communities that oppose gay marriage
>will not sanction them, and those like mine that
>do sanction gay marriage will conduct them, and
>the state will have no say one way or the other,
>nor any role in issuing marriage certificates or
>divorces. It will enforce laws imposing
>obligations on pepople who bring children into
>the world, and it will enforce contracts between
>consenting adults (civil unions), but it will
>get out of the business of giving state sanction
>to what had always been a sacred sacrament.
>
>This strategy could prove far more powerful.
>Imagine if we could create a culture of
>resistance to state power over personal life
>that led tens of millions of liberal
>heterosexuals to simply stop using the state's
>marriage as a legitimator, and instead had
>spiritual ceremonies (some based in religious
>communities, others based in secular spiritual
>communities or friendship circles that affirmed
>marriage, using their own criteria for who could
>be married. These couples could then draw up
>their own legal contracts that were the
>equivalent of a "civil union" and enforceable by
>state laws just as any other contract would be.
>As this movement spread, the power of the state
>to accept or deny homosexual marraiges would
>become irrelevant, because gays and lesbians
>would be getting the same kind of marriage as
>everyone else--the one that heterosexuals were
>voluntarily getting in order to protect and
>identify with homosexuals. Within a decade this
>would create tremendous pressure on the state to
>either rescind its anti-homosexual legislation
>or validate this new kind of reality in which
>most people were not going to the state for
>marriages but instead going to their own
>spiritual community to insist that marriage is a
>sacred and not state-power-dependent
>relationship.
>
>But of course in the meantime, with the struggle
>being waged in the public sphere to explicitly
>deny homosexuals the rights granted to
>heretosexuals, there needs to be a powerful
>movement against those offensive measures. If
>that struggle focused on the commitment of both
>hetero and homo sexuals to lead a campaign in
>defense of the family by challenging the Old
>Bottom Line and demanding changes in all our
>institutions to foster in us the capacities of
>love, caring, etc. that nurture our abilities to
>be loving, and rejecting the ethos of the
>marketplace that undermines those capacities,
>we'd be far more effective than with any
>struggle that was simply an attempt to demand
>"equal rights" and frame the struggle entirely
>in the language of "rights."
>
>This approach is far more likely to be a winning
>strategy for those who wish to beat back the
>ongoing assault on gay rights.
>
>Rabbi Michael Lerner is editor of Tikkun
>Magazine, National Chair of the Network of
>Spiritual Progressives (NSP), and author of ten
>books, most recently: The Left Hand of
>God:Taking Back our Country from the Religious
>Right (Harper San Francisco, 2006). He is the
>Rabbi of Beyt Tikkun synagogue in San Francisco.
>RabbiLerner at tikkun.org
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