[Dialogue] ToP Methods

Terry Bergdall bergdall2 at gmail.com
Sat Oct 17 03:55:15 CDT 2009


You most have trouble sleeping. And here I am reading it at 3:50 am!  
Terry


On 17 Oct 2009, at 00:23, Bill Parker wrote:

> Wayne, don't take this personally. I am actually addressing all of  
> us, myself included.
>
> I simply must ask these questions in light of Jim's point about RSI  
> and Joe's impact, plus Dick's question about making the buck. Also,  
> after reading this listserve for a long time, it might be a good  
> idea for us to practice saying what we actually mean rather than  
> depend on the broad abstractions jargon produces. If we are as in  
> tune with those whom we facilitate as we imply, then this should not  
> be a problem.
>
> What is that life address when the methods are used well? To which  
> methods are you referring? What sustainable change have you seen in  
> any organizational culture as a result of only those methods? How  
> have companies changed their operations soley based on these  
> methods? How do we know there is a life address inherent in our  
> facilitation processes, and what is it? How do you know when you see  
> it? And how do we put language on it that is not 40 years old. Is it  
> not the case that we have all experienced many manifestations of the  
> methods that does not have a life address even with good  
> facilitators doing the work? Have we not see, regardless of who is  
> leading the session a very abstract set of platitudes with which no  
> one can disagree? Or maybe you have seen our methods, used well, yet  
> create an elaborate 30,000 foot level picture of superficiality. Has  
> anyone sat with facilitators who use the methods well yet inspite of  
> the energy produce a boring experience, leaving people wondering  
> whether the time was worth it?
>
> Making money employing these methods does not seem to be an issue.  
> However, these methods were created by many people over a 20 year  
> timeframe for the purpose of giving the world methods for  
> sustainable development, for the sake of the earth and its people.  
> When these same methods are made proprietary, trademarked  
> intellectual properties and with distribution being controlled, the  
> resulting image shows not such a high purpose regardless of the  
> language surrounding it.  It could be difficult to reverse the  
> notion that these methods are being driven by authoritarian and  
> monetary purposes at the expense of changing lives, communities, or  
> corporations. Joseph would probably puke, as Salinger stated it.
>
> Now, what are we about? How is what we are about with these methods  
> different from what we were about when the methods were created and  
> refined? Do we need new thinking about this? Have we just gone too  
> far down the road, or have we become a little bit too comfortable,  
> to rethink what changes we might need to consider. One of the  
> underlying, unstated, statements in the above set of questions is  
> that methods alone do not bring about all this transformation. It  
> still requires someone to put their life into the change and  
> transformation beyond the methods; someone who will risk their life  
> if necessary; someone who is will stay on that transformation over  
> the long haul. Otherwise, we can use those methods, or any other  
> method, all we want and nothing will change. It certainly does not  
> happen with methods alone, even when used by facilitation experts,  
> nor by spending a few days developing a report. So, how does that  
> happen?
>
> Just asking.
>
> Bill
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Wayne Nelson
> To: Colleague Dialogue
> Sent: Wednesday, October 07, 2009 9:09 AM
> Subject: Re: [Dialogue] ToP Methods
>
> Without question, there is a life address – in individuals and in  
> whole groups - when ToP methods are used well. It’s transparent, as  
> I believe it should be. People’s individual  lives and  
> organizational cultures do change. People and organizations make  
> substantial changes in the way they operate.  We’ve seen it all over  
> the place. We see it happen in training event and in facilitated  
> events.
>
> My memory and theory - - -
> As I recall, the substitution of “Experiential” for “Existential  
> happened when we began formally teaching ToP methods.  Existential  
> is not a term in common parlance. We know there’s a life address  
> inherent in our facilitation processes.  We want to include it and  
> use it with intentionality, because we want to make an impact. My  
> guess is that those who designed the first courses thought through  
> the terminology very carefully. Experiential is a term that can be  
> grasped by those who want to facilitate and do training. It’s easier  
> to swallow.
>
> I do think a couple of things have happened. I feel we have lost  
> some of he edge simply from contextual drift over time. The more  
> psychological meaning of experiential is easier for many to grasp  
> than the original philosophical intent; so there’s a tendency in  
> that direction. I’ve heard people substitute “visceral” for this  
> aim. There are also those who use that aim to refer to the quality  
> of experience they want people to have during the session. That’s  
> what I think is meant by “watering down.”
>
> I also think there are those who want the deeper intents to be more  
> obvious. We want people to face reality, grasp their possibility and  
> act out of a posture of responsibility etc.   To me this leads to  
> using the Existential / Experiential objective as a kind of “hidden  
> agenda.” As if we have something to teach when we are facilitating.  
> As if there is some subtle content “message” we want them to get. As  
> if a facilitated event should be an RS1. Obviously, that’s an  
> exaggeration, but I’ve seen some hints of it. It makes people  
> scratch their heads about us.
>
> My question has to do with what we really mean and intend with these  
> parts of our design process. I believe we need both of these  
> dimension in our methodology. I know I struggle to communicate the  
> real intent behind them in ways that real people can understand,  
> integrate and use.
>
> We do make money doing this. We’ve always dreamed about the ability  
> to earn a decent living doing what we do best. It has to do with  
> being sustainable in the fullest sense of the term.  Superficial use  
> of our methods will damage our reputation, dampen our impact and  
> lose us money.
>
> \\/
>
> "Richard Alton"  wrote:
>
> Great QUESTION, Jim! Are we changing lives or just making a 'fast  
> buck' in the market? I struggle with the question of evangelism, but  
> like the WORD.
> Dick
>
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>
>
>
> Date: Wed, 7 Oct 2009 05:26:50 -0700
> From: jfwiegel at yahoo.com
> To: dialogue at wedgeblade.net; oe at wedgeblade.net
> Subject: Re: [Dialogue] ToP Methods
>
> So, here is my question:  Looking at facilitation as we developed it  
> and compared to address your life pedagogy like in RS-1 and then  
> compared to the impact which Joe could generate on individuals and  
> groups -- are these all the same thing, or quite different things?
>
> If more or less the same, how would you describe this at its best?   
> Has this style of evangelism evolved and become refined or has it  
> gotten watered down?
>
> If different, how, and which are needed these days?
>
> Jim
>
> Coincidence is the spiritual equivalent of a pun.  G. K. Chesterton
>
>
> Jim Wiegel
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>
> From: W. J. <synergi at yahoo.com>
> To: Order Ecumenical Community <oe at wedgeblade.net>; dialogue at wedgeblade.net
> Sent: Tue, October 6, 2009 7:17:03 PM
> Subject: Re: [Dialogue] ToP Methods
>
> You can see why there were different Gospels in the Bible, and that  
> was long before Wiegel was summoned to the Holy Land to preach his  
> revised standard version of the Facilitator's Gospel. "Experiential  
> Aim"? Where did that come from? Isn't that the new Liberalism  
> creeping in to dilute the authentic EI Orthodoxy? Everybody who knew  
> JWM knows it is "Existential Aim" -- and you better believe it  
> really addressed your existence just to be around the Old Man.
> And the "O" in ORID -- wasn't that originally just  
> "Impressionistic"? And wasn't "R" originally "Subjective"? And  
> wasn't "D" originally "Theological"? So ORID = ISIT?
> Ah, the problems of generational transmission of the authentic  
> received canonical tradition! (Big Clue: I'm laughing!)
>
> Marshall
>
> >From where I sit, ORID reminds me of King Henry's death sentence  
> pronounced on Thomas Becket: "Will no One RID me of this meddlesome  
> priest?" Or something like that.
>
> From: James Wiegel <jfwiegel at yahoo.com>
> To: Order Ecumenical Community <oe at wedgeblade.net>; Colleague  
> Dialogue <dialogue at wedgeblade.net>
> Sent: Tuesday, October 6, 2009 3:33:45 PM
> Subject: Re: [Oe List ...] ToP Methods
>
> As I recall, these were an old, old idea.  When we were putting  
> together the ToP curriculum with those horizontal bubble tables we  
> added in Rational Objective and Experiential objective to the  
> manuals -- after 3 or 4 years someone expressed confusion between  
> Rational "Objective" and Experiential "Objective" and "Objective" as  
> in ORID, so when the manual was redone we changed to Rational Aim  
> and Experiential Aim.
>
> In actuality, though, there is a very rich and wise diversity in the  
> ways by which ToP facilitators actually focus and prepare  
> themselves.  It would be a great contribution to our craft to hear  
> from many people how they do this . .
>
> Jim
>
> Coincidence is the spiritual equivalent of a pun.  G. K. Chesterton
>
>
> Jim Wiegel
> 401 North Beverly Way, Tolleson, Arizona 85353-2401
> +1  623-936-8671   +1  623-363-3277
>    jfwiegel at yahoo.com   www.partnersinparticipation.com <http://www.partnersinparticipation.com 
> >
>
>
> From: Wayne Nelson <wnelson at ica-associates.ca>
> To: Colleague Dialogue <dialogue at wedgeblade.net>; Order Ecumenical <oe at wedgeblade.net 
> >
> Sent: Tuesday, October 6, 2009 3:23:46 PM
> Subject: [Oe List ...] ToP Methods
>
> Here’s a memory question – maybe something you heard.
>
> When, how and why did we introduce the ideas of using Rational and  
> Existential aims when we prepare for a facilitated event or a  
> training event?
>
> Does anyone know that history? I’m curious.
>
>
> \\/
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