"Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for
brethren to dwell together in unity!" (Ps. 133.1). In the
following we shall consider a number of directions and precepts
that the Scriptures provide us for our life together under the
Word.
It is not simply to be taken for granted that the
Christian has the privilege of living among other Christians.
Jesus Christ lived in the midst of his enemies. At the end all
his disciples deserted him. On the Cross he was utterly alone,
surrounded by evildoers and mockers. For this cause he had come,
to bring peace to the enemies of God. So the Christian, too, belongs
not in the seclusion of a cloistered life but in the thick of
foes. There is his commission, his work. "The Kingdom is
to be in the midst of your enemies. And he who will not suffer
this does not want to be of the Kingdom of Christ; he wants to
be among friends, to sit among roses and lilies, not with the
bad people but the devout people. O you blasphemers and betrayers
of Christ! If Christ had done what you are doing who would ever
have been spared?" ( Luther).
"I will sow them among the people: and they
shall remember me in far countries" (Zech. 10.9). According
to God's will Christendom is a scattered people, scattered like
seed "into all the kingdoms of the earth" (Deut. 28.25).
That is its curse and its promise. God's people must dwell in
far countries among the unbelievers, but it will be the seed of
the Kingdom of God in all the world.
"I will . . . gather them; for I have redeemed
them: . . . and they shall return" (Zech. 10.8,9). When will
that happen? It has happened in Jesus Christ, who died "that
he should gather together in one the children of God that were
scattered abroad" (John 11.52), and it will finally occur
visibly at the end of time when the angels of God "shall
gather together his elect from the four winds, from one end of
heaven to the other" (Matt. 24.31). Until then, God's people
remain scattered, held together solely in Jesus Christ, having
become one in the fact that, dispersed among unbelievers, they
remember him in the far countries
So between the death of Christ and the Last Day it
is only by a gracious anticipation of the last things that Christians
are privileged to live in visible fellowship with other Christians.
It is by the grace of God that a congregation is permitted to
gather visibly in this world to share God's Word and sacrament.
Not all Christians receive this blessing. The imprisoned, the
sick, the scattered lonely, the proclaimers of the Gospel in heathen
lands stand alone. They know that visible fellowship is a blessing.
They remember, as the Psalmist did, how they went "with the
multitude . .. to the house of God, with the voice of joy and
praise, with a multitude that kept holy day" (Ps. 42.4).
But they remain alone in far countries, a scattered seed according
to God's will. Yet what is denied them as an actual experience
they seize upon more fervently in faith. Thus the exiled disciple
of the Lord, John the Apocalyptist, celebrates in the loneliness
of Patmos the heavenly worship with his congregations "in
the Spirit on the Lord's day" (Rev. 1.10). He sees the seven
candlesticks, his congregations, the seven stars, the angels of
the congregations, and in the midst and above it all the Son of
Man, Jesus Christ, in all the splendour of the resurrection. He
strengthens and fortifies him by his Word. This is the heavenly
fellowship, shared by the exile on the day of his Lord's resurrection.
The physical presence of other Christians is a source
of incomparable joy and strength to the believer. Longingly the
imprisoned apostle Paul calls "his dearly beloved son in
the faith", Timothy to come to him in prison in the last
days of his life; he would see him again and have him near. Paul
has not forgotten the tears Timothy shed when last they parted
(11 Tim. 1.4). Remembering the congregation in Thessalonica, Paul
prays "night and day . . . exceedingly that we might see
your face" (I Thess. 3.10). The aged John knows that his
joy will not be full until he can come to his own people and speak
face to face instead of writing with ink (11 John 12).
The believer feels no shame, as though he were still
living too much in the flesh, when he yearns for the physical
presence of other Christians. Man was created a body, the Son
of God appeared on earth in the body, he was raised in the body,
in the sacrament the believer receives the Lord Christ in the
body, and the resurrection of the dead will bring about the perfected
fellowship of God's spiritualphysical creatures. The believer
therefore lauds the Creator, the Redeemer, God, Father, Son and
Holy Spirit, for the bodily presence of a brother. The prisoner,
the sick person, the Christian in exile sees in the companionship
of a fellow Christian a physical sign of the gracious presence
of the triune God. Visitor and visited in loneliness recognize
in each other the Christ who is present in the body; they receive
and meet each other as one meets the Lord, in reverence, humility,
and joy. They receive each other's benedictions as the benediction
of the Lord Jesus Christ. But if there is so much blessing and
joy even in a single encounter of brother with brother, how inexhaustible
are the riches that open up for those who by God's will are privileged
to live in the daily fellowship of life with other Christians!
It is true, of course, that what is an unspeakable
gift of God for the lonely individual is easily disregarded and
trodden under foot by those who have the gift every day. It is
easily forgotten that the fellowship of Christian brethren is
a gift of grace, a gift of the Kingdom of God that any day may
be taken from us, that the time that still separates us from utter
loneliness may be brief indeed. Therefore, let him who until now
has the privilege of living a common Christian life with other
Christians praise God's grace from the bottom of his heart. Let
him thank God on his knees and declare: It is grace, nothing but
grace, that we are allowed to live in community with Christian
brethren.
The measure with which God bestows the gift of visible
community is varied. The Christian in exile is comforted by a
brief visit of a Christian brother, a prayer together and a brother's
blessing; indeed, he is strengthened by a letter written by the
hand of a Christian. The greetings in the letters written with
Paul's own hand were doubtless tokens of such community. Others
are given the gift of common worship on Sundays. Still others
have the privilege of living a Christian life in the fellowship
of their families. Seminarians before their ordination receive
the gift of common life with their brethren for a definite period.
Among earnest Christians in the Church today there is a growing
desire to meet together with other Christians in the rest periods
of their work for common life under the Word. Communal life is
again being recognized by Christians today as the grace that it
is, as the extraordinary, the "roses and lilies" of
the Christian life.
Through and in Jesus Christ
Christianity means community through Jesus Christ
and in Jesus Christ. No Christian community is more or less than
this. Whether it be a brief, single encounter or the daily fellowship
of years, Christian community is only this. We belong to one another
only through and in Jesus Christ.
What does this mean? It means, first, that a Christian
needs others because of Jesus Christ. It means, second, that a
Christian comes to others only through Jesus Christ. It means,
third, that in Jesus Christ we have been chosen from eternity.
accepted in time. and united for eternity.
First, the Christian is the man who no longer seeks
his salvation, his deliverance, his justification in himself,
but in Jesus Christ alone. He knows that God's Word in Jesus Christ
pronounces him guilty, even when he does not feel his guilt, and
God's Word in Jesus Christ pronounces him not guilty and righteous,
even when he does not feel that he is righteous at all. The Christian
no longer lives of himself, by his own claims and his own justification,
but by God's claims and God's justification. He lives wholly by
God's Word pronounced upon him, whether that Word declares him
guilty or innocent.
The death and the life of the Christian is not determined
by his own resources; rather he finds both only in the Word that
comes to him from the outside, in God's Word to him. The Reformers
expressed it this way: Our righteousness is an "alien righteousness"
a righteousness that comes from outside of us (extra
nos). They were saying that the Christian
is dependent on the Word of God spoken to him. He is pointed outward,
to the Word that comes to him. The Christian lives wholly by the
truth of God's Word is Jesus Christ. If somebody asks him, Where
is your salvation, your righteousness? he can never point to himself.
He points to the Word of God in Jesus Christ, which assures him
salvation and righteousness. He is as alert as possible to this
Word. Because he daily hungers and thirsts for righteousness,
he daily desires the redeeming Word. And it can come only from
the outside. In himself he is destitute and dead. Help must come
from the outside, and it has come and comes daily and anew in
the Word of Jesus Christ, bringing redemption, righteousness,
innocence, and blessedness.
But God has put this Word into the mouth of men in
order that is may be communicated to other men. When one person
is struck by the Word, he speaks it to others. God has willed
that we should seek him and find his living Word in the witness
of a brother, in the mouth of a man. Therefore, a Christian needs
another Christian who speaks God's Word to him. He needs him again
and again when he becomes uncertain and discouraged, for by himself
he cannot help himself without belying the truth. He needs his
brother man as a bearer and proclaimer of the divine word of salvation.
He needs his brother solely because of Jesus Christ. The Christ
in his own heart is weaker than the Christ in the word of his
brother; his own heart is uncertain, his brother's is sure.
And that also clarifies the goal of all Christian
community: they meet one another as bringers of the message of
salvation. As such, God permits them to meet together and gives
them community. Their fellowship is founded solely upon Jesus
Christ and this "alien righteousness". All we can say,
therefore, is: the community of Christians springs solely from
the biblical and Reformation message of the justification of man
through grace alone; this alone is the basis of the longing of
Christians for one another.
Second, a Christian comes to others only through
Jesus Christ. Among men there is strife. "He is our peace",
says Paul of Jesus Christ (Eph. 2.14). Without Christ there is
discord between God and man and between man and man. Christ became
the Mediator and made peace with God and among men. Without Christ
we should not know God and could not call upon him, nor come to
him. But without Christ we would also not know our brother, nor
could we come to him. The way is blocked by our own ego. Christ
opened up the way to God and to our brother. Now Christians can
live with one another in peace; they can love and serve one another;
they can become one. But they can continue to do so only by way
of Jesus Christ. Only in Jesus Christ are we one, only through
him are we bound together. To eternity he remains the one Mediator.
Third, when God's Son took on flesh, he truly and
bodily took on, out of pure grace, our being, our nature, ourselves.
This was the eternal counsel of the triune God. Now we are in
him. Where he is, there we are too, in the incarnation, on the
Cross, and in his resurrection. We belong to him because we are
in him. That is why the Scriptures call us the Body of Christ.
But if, before we could know and wish it, we have been chosen
and accepted with the whole Church in Jesus Christ, then we also
belong to him in eternity with one another. We who live
here in fellowship with him will one day be with him in eternal
fellowship. He who looks upon his brother should know that he
will be eternally united with him in Jesus Christ. Christian community
means community through and in Jesus Christ. On this presupposition
rests everything that the Scriptures provide in the way of directions
and precepts for the communal life of Christians.
"But as touching brotherly love ye need not
that I write unto you: for ye yourselves are taught of God to
love one another . . . but we beseech you, brethren, that ye increase
more and more" (I Thess. 4.9, 10). God himself has undertaken
to teach brotherly love; all that men can add to it is to remember
this divine instruction and the admonition to excel in it more
and more. When God was merciful, when he revealed Jesus Christ
to us as our Brother, when he won our hearts by his love, this
was the beginning of our instruction in divine love. When God
was merciful to us, we learned to be merciful with our brethren.
When we received forgiveness instead of judgment, we, too, were
made ready to forgive our brethren. What God did to us, we then
owed to others. The more we received, the more we were able to
give; and the more meagre our brotherly love, the less were we
living by God's mercy and love. Thus God himself taught us to
meet one another as God has met us in Christ. "Wherefore
receive ye one another, as Christ also received us to the glory
of God" (Rom. 15.7).
In this wise does one, whom God has placed in common
life with other Christians, learn what it means to have brothers.
"Brethren in the Lord", Paul calls his congregation
(Phil. 1.14). One is a brother to another only through Jesus Christ.
I am a brother to another person through what Jesus Christ did
for me and to me; the other person has become a brother to me
through what Jesus Christ did for him. This fact that we are brethren
only through Jesus Christ is of immeasurable significance. Not
only the other person who is earnest and devout, who comes to
me seeking brotherhood, must I deal with in fellowship. My brother
is rather that other person who has been redeemed by Christ, delivered
from sin, and called to faith and eternal life. Not what a man
is in himself as a Christian, his spirituality and piety, constitutes
the basis of our community. What determines our brotherhood is
what that man is by reason of Christ. Our community with one another
consists solely in what Christ has done to both of us. This is
true not merely at the beginning, as though in the course of time
something else were to be added to our community; it remains so
for all the future and to all eternity. I have community with
others and I shall continue to have it only through Jesus Christ.
The more genuine and the deeper our community becomes, the more
will everything else between us recede, the more clearly and purely
will Jesus Christ and his work become the one and only thing that
is vital between us. We have one another only through Christ,
but through Christ we do have one another, wholly, and for all
eternity.
That dismisses once and for all every clamorous desire
for something more. One who wants more than what Christ has established
does not want Christian brotherhood. He is looking for some extraordinary
social experience which he has not found elsewhere; he is bringing
muddled and impure desires into Christian brotherhood. Just at
this point Christian brotherhood is threatened most often at the
very start by the greatest danger of all, the danger of being
poisoned at its root, the danger of confusing Christian brotherhood
with some wishful idea of religious fellowship, of confounding
the natural desire of the devout heart for community with the
spiritual reality of Christian brotherhood. In Christian brotherhood
everything depends upon its being clear right from the beginning,
first, that Christian brotherhood is not an ideal, but a divine
reality. Second, that Christian brotherhood is a spiritual and
not a psychic reality.
Not an Ideal but a Divine Reality
Innumerable times a whole Christian community has
broken down because it had sprung from a wish dream. The serious
Christian set down for the first time in a Christian community,
is likely to bring with him a very definite idea of what Christian
life together should be and try to realize it. But God's grace
speedily shatters such dreams. Just as surely God desires to lead
us to a knowledge of genuine Christian fellowship, so surely must
we be overwhelmed by a great general disillusionment with others,
with Christians in general, and, if we are fortunate, with ourselves.
By sheer grace God will not permit us to live even
for a brief period in a dream world. He does not abandon us to
those rapturous experiences and lofty moods that come over us
like a dream. God is not a God of the emotions but the God of
truth. Only that fellowship which faces such disillusionment,
with all its unhappy and ugly aspects, begins to be what it should
be in God's sight, begins to grasps in faith the promise that
is given to it. The sooner this shock of disillusionment comes
to an individual and to a community the better for both. A community
which cannot bear and cannot survive such a crisis, which insists
upon keeping its illusion when it should be shattered, permanently
loses in that moment the promise of Christian community. Sooner
or later it will collapse. Every human wish dream that is injected
into the Christian community is a hindrance to genuine community
and must be banished if genuine community is to survive. He who
loves his dream of a community more than the Christian community
itself becomes a destroyer of the latter, even though his personal
intentions may be ever so honest and earnest and sacrificial
God hates visionary dreaming; it makes the dreamer
proud and pretentious. The man who fashions a visionary ideal
of community demands that it be realized by God, by others, and
by himself. He enters the community of Christians with his demands,
sets up his own law, and judges the brethren and God himself accordingly.
He stands adamant, a living reproach to all others in the circle
of brethren. He acts as if he is the creator of the Christian
community, as if his dream binds men together. When things do
not go his way, he calls the effort a failure. When his ideal
picture is destroyed, he sees the community going to smash. So
he becomes, first an accuser of his brethren, then an accuser
of God, and finally the despairing accuser of himself.
Because God has already laid the only foundation of our fellowship, because God has bound us together in one body with other Christians in Jesus Christ, long before we entered into common life with them, we enter into that common life not as demanders but as thankful recipients. We thank God for what he has done for us. We thank God for giving us brethren who live by his call, by his forgiveness, and his promise. We do not complain of what God does not give us; we rather thank God for what he does give us daily. And is not what has been given us enough: brothers, who will go on living with us through sin and need under the blessing of his grace? Is the divine gift of Christian fellowship anything less than this, any day, even the most difficult and distressing day? Even when sin and misunderstanding burden the communal life, is not the sinning brother still a brother with
whom I too, stand under the Word of Christ? Will
not his sin be a constant occasion for me to give thanks that
both of us may live in the forgiving love of God in Jesus Christ?
Thus the very hour of disillusionment with my brother becomes
incomparably salutary, because it so thoroughly teaches me that
neither of us can ever live by our own words and deeds, but only
by that one Word and Deed which really binds us together-the forgiveness
of sins in Jesus Christ. When the morning mists of dreams vanish,
then dawns the bright day of Christian fellowship.
In the Christian community thankfulness is just what
it is anywhere else in the Christian life. Only he who gives thanks
for little things receives the big things. We prevent God from
giving us the great spiritual gifts he has in store for us, because
we do not give thanks for daily gifts. We think we dare not be
satisfied with the small measure of spiritual knowledge, experience,
and love that has been given to us, and that we must constantly
be looking forward eagerly for the highest good. Then we deplore
the fact that we lack the deep certainty, the strong faith, and
the rich experience that God has given to others, and we consider
this lament to be pious. We pray for the big things and forget
to give thanks for the ordinary, small (and yet really not small)
gifts. How can God entrust great things to one who will not thankfully
receive from him the little things? If we do not give thanks daily
for the Christian fellowship in which we have been placed, even
where there is no great experience, no discoverable riches, but
much weakness, small faith, and difficulty; if, on the contrary,
we only keep complaining to God that everything is so paltry and
petty, so far from what we expected, then we hinder God from letting
our fellowship grow according to the measure and riches which
are there for us all in Jesus Christ
This applies in a special way to the complaints often
heard from pastors and zealous members about their congregations.
A pastor should not complain about his congregation, certainly
never to other people, but also not to God. A congregation has
not been entrusted to him in order that he should become its accuser
before God and men. When a person becomes alienated from a Christian
community in which he has been placed and begins to raise complaints
about it, he had better examine himself first to see whether the
trouble is not due to his wish dream that should be shattered
by God; and if this be the case, let him thank God for leading
him into this predicament. But if not, let him nevertheless guard
against ever becoming an accuser of the congregation before God.
Let him rather accuse himself for his unbelief. Let him pray God
for an understanding of his own failure and his particular sin,
and pray that he may not wrong his brethren. Let him, in the consciousness
of his own guilt, make intercession for his brethren. Let him
do what he is committed to do, and thank God.
Christian community is like the Christian's sanctification.
It is a gift of God which we cannot claim. Only God knows the
real state of our fellowship, of our sanctification. What may
appear weak and trifling to us may appear great and glorious to
God. Just as the Christian should not be constantly feeling his
pulse, so, too, the Christian community has not been given to
us by God for us to be constantly taking its temperature. The
more thankfully we daily receive what is given to us, the more
surely and steadily will fellowship increase and grow from day
to day as God pleases.
Christian brotherhood is not an ideal which we must
realize; it is rather a reality created by God in Christ in which
we may participate. The more clearly we learn to recognize that
the ground and strength and promise of all our fellowship is in
Jesus Christ alone, the more serenely shall we think of our fellowship
and pray and hope for it.
A Spiritual not a Human Reality
Because Christian community is founded solely on
Jesus Christ, it is a spiritual and not a psychic reality. In
this it differs absolutely from all other communities. The Scriptures
call "pneumatic", "spiritual", that which
is created only by the Holy Spirit, who puts Jesus Christ into
our hearts as Lord and Saviour. The Scriptures term "psychic",
"human", that which comes from the natural urges, powers,
and capacities of the human spirit.
The basis of all spiritual reality is the clear,
manifest Word of God in Jesus Christ. The basis of all human reality
is the dark turbid urges and desires of the human mind. The basis
of the community of the Spirit is truth; the basis of human community
of spirit is desire. The essence of the community of the Spirit
is light, for "God is light, and in him is no darkness at
all" (I John 1.5) and "if we walk in the light, as he
is in the light, we have fellowship one with another" (1.7).
The essence of human community of spirit is darkness, "for
from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts"
(Mark 7.21). It is the deep night that hovers over the sources
of all human action, even over all noble and devout impulses.
The community of the Spirit is the fellowship of those who are
called by Christ; human community of spirit is the fellowship
of devout souls. In the community of the Spirit there burns the
bright love of brotherly service, agape; in human community
of spirit there glows the dark love of good and evil desire, ergs.
In the former there is ordered, brotherly service, in the
latter disordered desire for pleasure; in the former humble subjection
to the brethren, in the latter humble yet haughty subjection of
a brother to one's own desire. In the community of the Spirit
the Word of God alone rules; in human community of spirit there
rules, along with the Word, the man who is furnished with exceptional
powers, experience, and magical suggestive capacities. There God's
Word alone is binding; here, besides the Word, men bind others
to themselves. There all power, honour and dominion are surrendered
to the Holy Spirit; here spheres of power and influence of a personal
nature are sought and cultivated. It is true, in so far as these
are devout men, that they do this with the intention of serving
the highest and the best, but in actuality the result is to dethrone
the Holy Spirit, to relegate him to remote unreality. In actuality
it is only the human that is operative here. In the spiritual
realm the Spirit governs; in human community, psychological techniques
and methods. In the former naive, unpsychological, unmethodical,
helping love is extended towards one's brother; in the latter
psychological analysis and construction; in the one the service
of one's brother is simple and humble; in the other service consists
of a searching, calculating analysis of a stranger.
Perhaps the contrast between spiritual and human
reality can be made most clear in the following observation: Within
the spiritual community there is never, nor in any way, any "immediate"
relationship of one to another, whereas human community expresses
a profound, elemental, human desire for community, for immediate
contact with other human souls, just as in the flesh there is
the urge for physical merger with other flesh. Such desire of
the human soul seeks a complete fusion of I and Thou, whether
this occur in the union of love or, what is after all the same
thing, in the forcing of another person into one's sphere of power
and influence. Here is where the humanly strong person is in his
element, securing for himself the admiration, the love, or the
fear of the weak. Here human ties, suggestions, and bonds are
everything, and in the immediate community of souls we have reflected
the distorted image of everything that is originally and solely
peculiar to community mediated through Christ.
Thus there is such a thing as human absorption. It
appears in all the forms of conversion wherever the superior power
of one person is consciously or unconsciously misused to influence
profoundly and draw into his spell another individual or a whole
community. Here one soul operates directly upon another soul.
The weak have been overcome by the strong, the resistance of the
weak has broken down under the influence of another person. He
has been overpowered, but not won over by the thing itself. This
becomes evident as soon as the demand is made that he throw himself
into the cause itself, independently of the person to whom he
is bound, or possibly in opposition to this person. Here is where
the humanly converted person breaks down and thus makes it evident
that his conversion was effected, not by the Holy Spirit, but
by a man, and therefore has no stability.
Likewise, there is a human love of one's neighbour.
Such passion is capable of prodigious sacrifices. Often it far
surpasses genuine Christian love in fervent devotion and visible
results. It speaks the Christian language with overwhelming and
stirring eloquence. But it is what Paul is speaking of when he
says: "And though I bestow my goods to feed the poor, and
though I give my body to be burned"-in other words, though
I combine the utmost deeds of love with the utmost of devotion-
"and have not charity [that is, the love of Christ], it profiteth
me nothing" (1 Cor.13.3). Human love is directed to the other
person for his own sake, spiritual love loves him for Christ's
sake. Therefore, human love seeks direct contact with the other
person; it loves him not as a free person but as one whom it binds
to itself. It wants to gain, to capture by every means; it uses
force. It desires to be irresistible, to rule.
Human love has little regard for truth. It makes
the truth relative, since nothing, not even the truth, must come
between it and the beloved person. Human love desires the other
person, his company, his answering love, but it does not serve
him. On the contrary, it continues to desire even when it seems
to be serving. There are two marks, both of which are one and
the same thing, that manifest the difference between spiritual
and human love: Human love cannot tolerate the dissolution of
a fellowship that has become false for the sake of genuine fellowship,
and human love cannot love an enemy, that is, one who seriously
and stubbornly resists it. Both spring from the same source: human
love is by its very nature desire-desire for human community.
So long as it can satisfy this desire in some way, it will not
give it up, even for the sake of truth, even for the sake of genuine
love for others. But where it can no longer expect its desire
to be fulfilled, there it stops short-namely, in the face of an
enemy. There it turns into hatred, contempt. and calumny.
Right here is the point where spiritual love begins.
This is why human love becomes personal hatred when it encounters
genuine spiritual love, which does not desire but serves. Human
love makes itself an end in itself. It creates of itself an end,
an idol which it worships, to which it must subject everything.
It nurses and cultivates an ideal, it loves itself, and nothing
else in the world. Spiritual love, however, comes from Jesus Christ,
it serves him alone; it knows that it has no immediate access
to other persons.
Jesus Christ stands between the lover and the others
he loves. I do not know in advance what love of others means on
the basis of the general idea of love that grows out of my human
desires-all this may rather be hatred and an insidious kind of
selfishness in the eyes of Christ. What love is, only Christ tells
in his Word. Contrary to all my own opinions and convictions,
Jesus Christ will tell me what love toward the brethren really
is. Therefore, spiritual love is bound solely to the Word of Jesus
Christ. Where Christ bids me to maintain fellowship for the sake
of love, I will maintain it. Where his truth enjoins me to dissolve
a fellowship for love's sake, there I will dissolve it, despite
all the protests of my human love. Because spiritual love does
not desire but rather serves, it loves an enemy as a brother.
It originates neither in the brother nor in the enemy but in Christ
and his Word. Human love can never understand spiritual love,
for spiritual love is from above; it is something completely strange,
new, and incomprehensible to all earthly love.
Because Christ stands between me and others, I dare
not desire direct fellowship with them. As only Christ can speak
to me in such a way that I may be saved, so others, too, can be
saved only by Christ himself. This means that I must release the
other person from every attempt of mine to regulate, coerce, and
dominate him with my love. The other person needs to retain his
independence of me; to be loved for what he is, as one for whom
Christ became man, died, and rose again, for whom Christ bought
forgiveness of sins and eternal life. Because Christ has long
since acted decisively for my brother, before I could begin to
act, I must leave him his freedom to be Christ's; I must meet
him only as the person that he already is in Christ's eyes. This
is the only meaning of the proposition that we can meet others
only through the mediation of Christ. Human love constructs its
own image of the other person, of what he is and what he should
become. It takes the life of the other person into its own hands.
Spiritual love recognizes the true image of the other person which
he has received from Jesus Christ; the image that Jesus Christ
himself embodied and would stamp upon all men.
Therefore, spiritual love proves itself in that everything
it says and does commends Christ. It will not seek to move others
by all too personal, direct influence, by impure interference
in the life of another. It will not take pleasure in pious, human
fervour and excitement. It will rather meet the other person with
the clear Word of God and be ready to leave him alone with this
Word for a long time, willing to release him again in order that
Christ may deal with him. It will respect the line that has been
drawn between him and us by Christ, and it will find full fellowship
with him in the Christ who alone binds us together. Thus this
spiritual love will speak to Christ about a brother more than
to a brother about Christ. It knows that the most direct way to
others is always through prayer to Christ and that love of others
is wholly dependent upon the truth in Christ. It is out of this
love that John the disciple speaks. "I have no greater joy
than to hear that my children walk in truth" (III John 4).
Human love lives by uncontrolled and uncontrollable
dark desires; spiritual love lives in the clear light of
service ordered by the truth. Human love produces human
subjection, dependence, constraint; spiritual love creates freedom
of the brethren under the Word. Human love breeds hothouse
flowers; spiritual love creates the fruits that grow healthily
in accord with God's good will in the rain and storm and sunshine
of God's outdoors. The existence of any Christian life together
depends on whether it succeeds at the right time in bringing out
the ability to distinguish between a human ideal and God's reality,
between spiritual and human community.
The life or death of a Christian community is determined
by whether it achieves sober wisdom on this point as soon as possible.
In other words, life together under the Word will remain sound
and healthy only where it does not form itself into a movement,
an order, a society, a collegium pietatis, but rather where
it understands itself as being a part of the one, holy, catholic,
Christian Church, where it shares actively and passively in the
sufferings and struggles and promise of the whole Church. Every
principle of selection and every separation connected with it
that is not necessitated quite objectively by common work, local
conditions, or family connections is of the greatest danger to
a Christian community. When the way of intellectual or spiritual
selection is taken the human element always insinuates itself
and robs the fellowship of its spiritual power and effectiveness
for the Church, drives it into sectarianism. The exclusion of
the weak and insignificant, the seemingly useless people, from
a Christian community may actually mean the exclusion of Christ;
in the poor brother Christ is knocking at the door. We must, therefore,
be very careful at this point.
The undiscerning observer may think that this mixture
of ideal and reality, of the human and spiritual, is most likely
to be present where there a number of levels in the structure
of a community, as in marriage, the family, friendship, where
the human element as such already assumes a central importance
in the community's coming into being at all, and where the spiritual
is only something added to the physical and intellectual. According
to this view, it is only in these relationships that there is
a danger of confusing and mixing the two spheres, whereas there
can be no such danger in a purely spiritual fellowship. This idea,
however, is a great delusion. According to all experience the
truth is just the opposite. A marriage, a family, a friendship
is quite conscious of the limitations of its communitybuilding
power; such relationships know very well, if they are sound, where
the human element stops and the spiritual begins. They know the
difference between physicalintellectual and spiritual community.
On the contrary, when a community of a purely spiritual kind is
established, it always encounters the danger that everything human
will be carried into and intermixed with this fellowship. A purely
spiritual relationship is not only dangerous but also an altogether
abnormal thing. When physical and family relationships or ordinary
associations, that is, those arising from everyday life with all
its claims upon people who are working together, are not projected
into the spiritual community, then we must be especially careful.
That is why, as experience has shown, it is precisely in retreats
of short duration that the human element develops most easily.
Nothing is easier than to stimulate the glow of fellowship in
a few days of life together, but nothing is more fatal to the
sound, sober, brotherly fellowship of everyday life.
There is probably no Christian to whom God has not
given the uplifting experience of genuine Christian community
at least once in his life. But in this world such experiences
can be no more than a gracious extra beyond the daily bread of
Christian community life. We have no claim upon such experiences,
and we do not live with other Christians for the sake of acquiring
them. it is not the experience of Christian brotherhood, but solid
and certain faith in brotherhood that holds us together. That
God has acted and wants to act upon us all, this we see in faith
as God's greatest gift, this makes us glad and happy, but it also
makes us ready to forego all such experiences when God at times
does not grant them. We are bound together by faith, not by experience.
"Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to
dwell together in unity"-this is the Scripture's praise of
life together under the Word. But now we can rightly interpret
the words "in unity" and say, "for brethren to
dwell together through Christ". For Jesus Christ alone
is our unity. "He is our peace". Through him alone do
we have access to one another, joy in one another, and fellowship
with one another.
from LIFE TOGETHER, SCM Press. London: 1965.