[Oe List ...] Vance Engleman: Spirit Man

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I would like to add another facet to the diamond of Vance that is  emerging 
over this dialogue.
 
Except for a brief visit Vance made to Nam Wai while we were there in the  
early 80's, I never had any contact with him until fairly recently.  In the  
90's Vance joined other colleagues of the eastern states at the spring and fall  
gatherings we held at Shepherd's Springs in Maryland.  Our son, Peter,  
attended those events with us.  Because of Peter's disabilities, he was  often a 
little "left out" during our many discussions and workshops.   Vance, however, 
used mealtimes to engage Peter in conversation, making silly  remarks that would 
make Peter laugh and enjoyed his company on walks through the  woods.  Vance 
had the knack for being present to everyone and connecting to  someone like 
Peter who needed a friend.  I will always be grateful to Vance  for making Peter 
feel like "one of the guys".  Peter was always eager  to attend the 
gatherings because he felt loved and cared for.
 
Recently I was inspired by the Peace events Vance conducted in DC and  MD.  
May Vance now be the one who is at peace.
 
Louise Ballard
 
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