[Oe List ...] OE Digest, Vol 68, Issue 4

Bill Schlesinger pvida at whc.net
Tue Dec 1 18:50:52 CST 2009


My late father-in-law was fond of the quote, "I complained because I had no
shoes until I met a man who had no feet."  A wider view of the world does
put our perplexities in perspective just as taking off in an airplane
spreads out the masses of folk whose lives surround us usually unseen.  

 

I was reacting to the sense of 'blessings' as the parts of life we like, in
contrast to the beatitudes in the texts of the gospels.  Our - or maybe my -
iconic hero wasn't the one who ended up with the most toys, much as I would
like to have better cash flow.  And belovedness isn't linked to health,
wealth, or the other 'blessings' for which so many folk give thanks around
harvest festivals.  For me thankfulness is a posture much as trust or faith
- even though I'm really glad when I've run a yellow/red light not to see
flashing blue and red lights in the rear view mirror.  It's a hard sorting
out in my own head - the relief at the bullet missing me vs. the gratitude
for being.

 

Bill Schlesinger
Project Vida
3607 Rivera Ave
El Paso, TX 79905
(915) 533-7057 x 207
(915) 490-6148 mobile
(915) 533-7158 fax
bschlesinger.pv at tachc.org
www.projectvidaelpaso.org

 

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From: oe-bounces at wedgeblade.net [mailto:oe-bounces at wedgeblade.net] On Behalf
Of Debra Harris-Watson
Sent: Tuesday, December 01, 2009 5:18 PM
To: oe at wedgeblade.net
Subject: Re: [Oe List ...] OE Digest, Vol 68, Issue 4

 


Hi I am so sorry for I truly didn't mean gratefulness in that I'm grateful
that I have it so much better than so many others in this world-  these
slides bring up deep, deep sadness- and yes compassion. (I joined the Order
because I saw so much sorrow, inequity, innocent suffering in the world and
I wanted to help in some kind of meaningful way. I didn't know at the time
that I would receive so much in return!)

 

What I meant to say that I tend to complain and over focus on my own life
far too much and many times do not show/feel enough gratitude to the people
in my life or for so many small things that I take for granted- clean water
(access to water!), a home, a family, food & all the people's labor that
goes into what I eat everyday etc...  And sorrow that so many are destitute,
hungry, hit by natural disaster, just trying to barely survive- and are/will
be the first to experience the profound effects and all the innumerable
consequences of global warming- drought, starvation, disease, uprootedness,
warfare...

 

I am grateful for colleagues in my life. 

Debra 



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Today's Topics:

   1. Re: Gratefulness slide show (Marianna Bailey)
   2. Re: Gratefulness slide show (Bill Parker)


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Message: 1
Date: Tue, 1 Dec 2009 17:04:33 -0500
From: "Marianna Bailey" <wmbailey at charter.net
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Subject: Re: [Oe List ...] Gratefulness slide show
To: "Order Ecumenical Community" <oe at wedgeblade.net
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To me it called for compassion, not gratefulness.
mb
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  From: Bill Schlesinger 
  To: 'Order Ecumenical Community' 
  Sent: Tuesday, December 01, 2009 4:08 PM
  Subject: Re: [Oe List ...] Gratefulness slide show


  There's survivor's guilt as well as gratitude.  The sadness of starvation
and neglect doesn't fill me with gratitude either.  'There is something in
the misfortune of our closest friends that does not displease us' - or makes
us thankful - seems more related to what Tillich called sin as separation.  

   

  FWIW

   

  Bill Schlesinger
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  El Paso, TX 79905
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  (915) 490-6148 mobile
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On Behalf Of Herman Greene
  Sent: Tuesday, December 01, 2009 1:55 PM
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  Subject: Re: [Oe List ...] Gratefulness slide show

   

  Perspective is important, but in general I don't find gratitude in knowing
others are worse off than me.

   


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  Subject: Re: [Oe List ...] Gratefulness slide show

   

        Hi A.M.,  These are powerful images & message.  Does it come as a
slideshow? (The attachments were scrubbed but openable). I want to share but
concerned others may not take time to open all the attachments.  Is there a
website?   Thanks so much for sharing this- it immediately made me feel
grateful for all that I have in my life!  

        Debra Harris


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wrote:
        1. FW: Voted the BEST EMAIL of this Year (A.M. Noel)

        Message: 1
        Date: Thu, 26 Nov 2009 08:20:52 -0800
        From: "A.M. Noel" <amnoel at comcast.net
<http://us.mc815.mail.yahoo.com/mc/compose?to=amnoel@comcast.net> >
        Subject: [Oe List ...] FW: Voted the BEST EMAIL of this Year
        To: "'Order Ecumenical Community'" <oe at wedgeblade.net
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          Some incredible pictures a friend sent me. 

          Sent: Monday, November 23, 2009 1:17 AM

          Subject: FW: Voted the BEST EMAIL of this Year

          If you think you are unhappy, look at them 

          If you think your salary is low, how about her?

          If you think you don't have many friends.....

          When you feel like giving up, think of this man

          If you think you suffer in life, do you suffer as much as he does?

          If you complain about your transport system, how about them?

          If your society is unfair to you, how about her? 

          This email needs to circulate forever...

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Date: Tue, 1 Dec 2009 16:30:32 -0600
From: "Bill Parker" <bparker175 at cox.net
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Subject: Re: [Oe List ...] Gratefulness slide show
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What do you find in knowing others are worse off than you?
  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Herman Greene 
  To: 'Order Ecumenical Community' 
  Sent: Tuesday, December 01, 2009 2:55 PM
  Subject: Re: [Oe List ...] Gratefulness slide show


  Perspective is important, but in general I don't find gratitude in knowing
others are worse off than me.

   


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On Behalf Of Debra Harris-Watson
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  To: oe at wedgeblade.net
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  Subject: Re: [Oe List ...] Gratefulness slide show

   

        Hi A.M.,  These are powerful images & message.  Does it come as a
slideshow? (The attachments were scrubbed but openable). I want to share but
concerned others may not take time to open all the attachments.  Is there a
website?   Thanks so much for sharing this- it immediately made me feel
grateful for all that I have in my life!  

        Debra Harris


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wrote:
        1. FW: Voted the BEST EMAIL of this Year (A.M. Noel)

        Message: 1
        Date: Thu, 26 Nov 2009 08:20:52 -0800
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        Subject: [Oe List ...] FW: Voted the BEST EMAIL of this Year
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          Some incredible pictures a friend sent me. 

          Sent: Monday, November 23, 2009 1:17 AM

          Subject: FW: Voted the BEST EMAIL of this Year

          If you think you are unhappy, look at them 

          If you think your salary is low, how about her?

          If you think you don't have many friends.....

          When you feel like giving up, think of this man

          If you think you suffer in life, do you suffer as much as he does?

          If you complain about your transport system, how about them?

          If your society is unfair to you, how about her? 

          This email needs to circulate forever...

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